KISS Rules

💋Identification

If you haven't previously had your identity and age verified by government issued photo ID, you will be asked to show your photo ID at the door to the host (LoveBitten_) before you're permitted entry to the event. Your identity information will not be stored in any place and will only be seen by the host (LoveBitten_). Once you've shown ID you will receive a specialized role in discord that allows staff to know you've completed this step. 

 

💋Consent

Consent is required for play; consent must be given freely, without coercion and must be enthusiastic and ongoing. A no is a no for the night.

 

💋Vetting and Negotiation

Every guest in attendance has been subject to surface level vetting by providing two references.

KISS Staff try to create a safer space, but nothing about Kink, BDSM, or Sex is inherently safe. Please note that further vetting and negotiation are the responsibility of the guests and that the vetting for entry is not meant to replace your personal vetting preferences.

 

Negotiate the limits of your scene and what you may do if it does not go as planned.

 

The event safe word is RED. You may use any agreed safe word between partners but everyone must respect the party safe word if it is called! If the event safe word is called, all play must stop to allow the DMs time to investigate. DMs will let guests know when play can resume.

 

💋The Space

Outside – No outdoor play is permitted. Street clothing or robe is required outside. Please respect designated smoking area. Though the location offers privacy, it is not so secluded that its impossible for anyone to see you, the space may also have an exterior security features such as a video camera door bell or exterior cameras. Be mindful outside.

 

Indoors – Use the provided waste bins. Follow all posted signs. See signs and what they mean on the KISS Signs Page Here.

 

Please respect the furniture, there will be a plastic covering. Ultimately individuals are responsible for their own needs in regard to barriers on communally used surfaces. We suggest you consider adding a personal barrier towel for additional separation.

 

💋Substance Use

While legal substances (cannabis products, alcohol) are able to be consumed on the premises (no smoking inside!) please be mindful of your level of intoxication and adjust accordingly. Discuss with any partners if you are consuming substances.

 

If anyone becomes intoxicated to the point where we believe their judgement or ability to safely play/negotiate/consent has been impaired, they will be asked to leave the event in a safe manner (i.e. taxi).

 

No illicit substances are to be consumed on the property. If you are found to be using illicit substances on the property you will be asked to leave and possibly banned from further events. 

 

💋Prohibited Play 

Though we are accepting of many types and styles of play, our event is not an appropriate venue for every single type of play. Please be mindful, if you don’t know if the play you want to do is appropriate for the space – ask a member of the host team.

 

Race play - is always prohibited!

 

Sharps play, blood play, scat, SA scenes, Are prohibited at this time. 

 

Though we recognize that sex work is work - no solicitation or pay for play is allowed at this event. 

 

💋Photography 

Photos are allowed of consenting individuals only, do not take photos, post photos or share photos of others without explicit consent.  All participants agree they will honour this and remove/delete any photos at any time if a person in the photo requests it to be taken down. 

 

We will have a photographer at the event, please let the photographer know if you would like to opt-out of being photographed! 

 

💋Summary:

• Get Consent Always

• Don’t touch anyone or their things without consent

• Clothes on outside

• Respect designated spaces (no-play zones, play bathrooms, low sensory room)

• Clean up after yourself

• Be respectful

• Be mindful

• COMMUNICATE 

Anyone convicted of a sexual offense is not welcome at our events. 

 

💋Event Etiquette

Please be mindful of others, do not interrupt scenes in bedrooms or in shared play spaces (i.e. dungeon/rec room). Interrupting a scene can look like talking to a top/bottom while a scene is ongoing, changing the lighting or environment when a scene is ongoing, talking/interacting with a member from a scene during aftercare. When in doubt, wait until the members of the scene begin casually interacting with others again before approaching with a question or comment.

 

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